Isn’t it is the obvious things that are often overlooked, not unobvious? Read the following conversation for yourself: 

The master said:“There is a fight between two forces that reside in all of us. One is NEGATIVE. It’s annoyance, helplessness, pleonexy, bitterness, inferiority, untruth and ego. The other is POSITIVE. It’s happiness, serenity, love, aspiration, humanity, care and candor.”

The student paused and asked: “I feel the positive force should win. It is better, isn’t it?  Which force wins?”

The master replied, “The one you nurture.”

How true!