Are you holding on to a relationship that’s not worth your time and energy?
We all know that our life is lived only once still, we keep holding onto relationships that do not shower us with love, empowerment, and encouragement.
We “hope” that things will work out one day.
- That friend who has gone kaput will again be my closest friend … one day …
- That pretty girl will say yes to my marriage proposal … one day …
- That bad customer will turn into a good … one day …
- My mother-in-law (or boss) will stop shouting at me … one day …
We keep waiting, but the “one day” NEVER comes.
Or even if it comes, it comes when we’ve stopped waiting for it.
What’s the point?
So, today let go of every relationship – real or imaginary – that constantly hurts you – do not keep people in your life who do not motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you feel good for who you are.
Your present being is inclusive of them. Exclude them today from your life.
“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” ~ Lao Tzu
Do not look back. Do not hold onto your past. Do not keep thinking about what you could have done differently.
“It’s OK to move on. You owe it to yourself to move on. You owe it to yourself to be happy with the relationships you have.” ~ The Minimalistc (Joshua Fields Millburn & Ryan)
Lori Deschene of Tiny Buddha has written a wonderful post called How to Let Go of a Past Relationship. Read it today. It provides useful insights on letting go.
You will never regret your decision and the world will get a happier you … and you’ll enjoy it too!